A Letter TO My Dearest Dadaji - Disha

February 10,2016

To my Dearest Ratilal Dada,

Today is very special Day, special because it is the occasion of your 100th birthday and that is bitter
sweet for me. Hope you were with us today Dear Dadaji. There is so much to say to you but
words have always failed, but remembering you today takes me down to those days we spent
together.

You have demonstrated nothing but positivity to me and everyone in our Family.
Effortlessly, you have provided a sense of security and stability for us for our entire life. You
are everything that anyone could ever ask for in a grandfather and more. Grandfathers are
truly awesome. God has certainly blessed our family for giving you, Dadaji  As your
grandchild I am proud and blessed to have this opportunity to stop and reflect on a remarkable man
who I am fortunate enough to have shaped my life and my being with love and guidance. I am also
saddened that you are no longer with us but your absence is always felt in our hearts. I want to tell you
again how much I love you and respect you and Miss you and appreciate everything you’ve done for us.
Dadaji has always played a role of Hero in my Life. He was an amazing man, one that I admire and
appreciate and love. He showed me how to have fun, how to enjoy life, what family means, what
leadership and sacrifice and responsibility and joy means. He have given me the very essence of how I
perceive life and I cannot express how profoundly grateful I am for all that you have done.
I have so many memories of the kindness, and love and fun that he has brought to my life over the
years. Many of the best are the simplest. My fond memories of spending time with him are
something that I cherish now and will forever. Simple, perfect and everlasting.

I wished that I could have tell you this in person - Thank you Dadaji for all of those and many, many
memories and your love. For being my hero. I love you from the bottom of my heart. You are a great
man and I am so fortunate to be your granddaughter.

I miss you Dadaji each day and wish you could have stayed with us a little more and I could have say all
this to you in person.

With love,

DIsha

Life is what you make out of it - Hitarth Jani

Life is what you make out of it – were the words of my grandfather when i asked him in one of the afternoon sessions i used to have with him one on one in summer vacations. 

When everybody else in household would prefer to have a nap on lazy summer afternoons, i would be awake talking to him about his views on life, philosophy, religions and his life experiences. May be i was that lucky kid who had a father figure to answer my questions full of curiosity. He too would answer all my questions with equal zeal with a glitter in his eyes that never faded till the end. I was also a stubborn soul who would never settle with an answer until it fits into my logical mind. This somehow brought the best of his sharing of life experiences and philosophy with me.

As a kid i was always fascinated how my Grandfather led his life right from his childhood when he was 5 years old till the end. I have not seen anyone yet with that will power in them to live the life on their own terms as i saw in him.

Imagine a person having lost his 10 siblings one after another within few years time, having lost his mother at age of 16, grown up doing all household chores by himself and also working simultaneously in order to keep the things moving, leaving home in order to search for a better tomorrow in such tough times – I once asked him how did you managed to do that all by yourself? He said - It is simple. When you clear out all irrelevant obstacles from your way, you become in tune and in direct touch with your life.

This above example and such numerous life experiences you don’t find anyone else in world but from your elders. Today 100 years on his teachings, philosophy and legacy remains.

RATILAL SANKALCHAND JANI – A part of you shall remain with me always. 

Below is a screenshot of a message to all Janis’ written in his own words shared with me by him in one of those afternoon sessions.

Rakshabandhan Letter From Disha

Hello,

All

I am not writing names because the list is too long...hahahaha

I know it sounds bit odd me writing a letter to u guys..but I miss you guys especially on this precious Day of Rakshabandhan..sorry I cannot write in Gujarati like Ketnaben but still I am giving it a try..this is the first time in my life that I am not able to join u guys but our heart n soul will always stay with u...

To All Brother's...First ...
Hi..Amishbhai,Deepanbhai,Jigarbhai,Appubhai,Dhiman and Hitarth..hope u guys r good and doing gr8..we may not be there with you today but I know u too must be missin us a lot..on this special Day of Rakshabandhan I would like to give a tight hug to all my dear brother's and off course to my lovely sister's too..Today being far apart suddenly some good-some old memories knocked my mind.. I was thinking about how it was when we were young. I never thought in a million years I would ever miss You Brother or wish we were kids again, just for one day. I realized how I took for granted the special times of our youth. I realized what a special bond we have with each other. I realized my brother's will always be there for me, no matter what. In that, I have found great comfort and the regrets of days past linger no more. But are filled with cords of a love song that only my brothers can sing. I thank God for blessing me with them. I am proud of all they have accomplished. It brings a smile to my heart when I see them as a boys who grew up to be very amazing men...I am so proud of u all...Cheers to You..

To All My Dear One's

I can imagine the atmosphere over there..purviben n Shanki must be ready with there pujathalis and Himaniben just like us must be missing this scenario..aur sab bhai log bathe honge aur meri pyari baheno ko chidhate honge as usual..I know Dhiman and Miku too will not be able to accompany you but still My love to them too..bhai log aur ek bat sun lo rakhi toh ap logo ko milgaye honge but I am waitin for my "Cover"..hahaahahah..I am too missin all my Kaka-kaki's, Foi-Fua's ,Bhabhi's and the very Special Ba...all must be in good mood and must be enjoying this wonderfull day of bonding..love to all..I can't write more bcoz I don't know how to write an Emotional Letter...and for me it's not worth Writing A Letter but it's really worth Felling and Missing Your dear .

ones'...

Love Always,

NIKI_KINI

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Hitarth is "Aussie"

Hitarth, on last monday became the first person to have passed Australian Citizenship Examination from our family. And what a way to achieve this feat. He scored 95 % of marks in the Examination. He will be able to apply for the Citizenship and after approval will be conferred with the Citizenship in a special Pledge ceremony.

Here are some SMS that he received from friends and relatives on the occassion:

Bharat Kaka: Hallo Buck - up and carry on our blessings are always with you - Kaka-kaki

Shanky: Congrats, Njoy !!

Amish: Heartiest Congratulations, God Bless You !!

Papa: Hi Australian, Indeed a great step forward.... Papa - Mummy - Shanky

Purvi: Your Message Made my Day

Dhiman: Hey, Great News to start a day with. Heartily Congrats Bro. You Truly deserve it. Jai Hatkesh.... Dhiman n Bansri.

Spandan: Congrats Brother, Hope you have many such successes.

Sruta: Hey! Congrats Bro. So can we have another party from u?? Lol.. Anyways, main part is that u got such gud marks.. Njoy.. TC

Khushboo: Congratulations !! That's great dear. Njoy and have a wonderful day... JsK

What a dream run it has been for Hitarth all these years since he have stepped out of Home firstly went to Pune and than here in Sydney. Still he has a message - "The Game is Not Over Yet, As I havent WON everything yet !!! :)

Dhiman Got Engaged

Hello All,

What a milestone year this has been. Firstly Kinni moving to USA for pursuing higher studies. Secondly Miku obtaining the Job of his dreams and now this - Our Beloved Brother is no more in Bachelors group guys. Lets give him Engagement Bums :D like Birthday Bums... Lolz.

And although its October already but the year is still not over yet. Somewhere later this year Miku will be appearing in Citizenship examination of Australia and again we Jani's will be rocking somehwhere in the world as we always do :)

 

Here are some pics from the Engagement Day -

Amish Bhai's Dusshera Gift

shamI shamayate paapam shamI shaTruvinaashinI ||
arjunasya dhanurdhaari raamsya priyadasrshinI ||
karishyamaaNayaatraayaa yayaakaalam sukham mayaa ||
tatranirviGnakrtrItvam bhava shrIraamapUjitaa ||

This day is for worshiping weapons. But in modern life those weapons are replaced by Automobiles, Machines and new Gadgets of this day.

Amish Bhai bought a new TATA Safari EX 2.2 VTT Dicor......Cycus Grey color this dusshera and it looks great. I have uploaded its pics.









And the Best of all ---

An Astonishing Fact

I found a great fact today while calculating dates. According, to the information i have, Last person to Die in our family was Manikanth Sankalchand Jani (Brother of Ratilal Dada) in 1943. With the passing away of Ratilal Dada, earlier this year, our family have faced such a demise for the first time in 65 years which is something really great if you compare it with the days when no one was really able to survive for more than 50 years in our family.

July 2008 - A Month to Remember

For all your days prepare
And meet them ever alike
When you are the anvil, bear -
When you are the hammer, Strike.

This is what, Hitarth Harish Jani, have been doing since July 2006, when he passed out of his Masters of Information Technology course. After putting his heart and soul in pursuing his higher degree, he had been struggling to get a good reasonable job of his standards. Finally, after some initial disappointments - he has been selected in an International company called Panalpina (www.panalpina.com). He has been included into IT department of the company and will be closely working with HR - IT and Finance departments. This is indeed an ultimate achievement - a career in a respected international company, in a respected field.

Dharv - Annual Day Pics

Dear All,

Yesterday (260408) was Dharv's annual day function.
Enclipped are few of the snaps when he and his group
were dancing to the tunes of "Koi ladki hain, jab woh
hasti hain, baarish aati hain.....chak dhoom dhoom
chak dhoom dhoom chak dhoom dhoom chak!"

(Pls see the sky blue watch on his right hand which I
brought recently from Singapore......he wore it with
pride saying MY DAD has brought it for me.....I love
him!)

Enjoy!

Amish

દુઃખદ અવસાન / બેસણું

દિલગીરી સાથે જણાવાનું કે અમારા પુજ્ય પિતાશ્રી રતિલાલ એસ. જાની (બેંક ઓફ બરોડા) તા. ૧૪/૦૧/૨૦૦૮ ના રોજ પ્રભુના શરણ થયા છે.

સદગતનું બેસણું તા. ૨૨/૦૧/૨૦૦૮ ને મંગળવારના રોજ સાંજે ૫ થી ૭ કલાકે નીચેના સ્થળે રાખેલ છે:
ઝાબક ભવન, વડોદરા.


લિ.
ભરત જાની
પંકજ જાની
હરીશ જાની
નિલેશ જાની

Some light moments with Dadaji

Dadaji Asthi Visarjan - Video

Dadaji Asthi Visarjan - 15th January 2008, 10.30 AM

Pictures:



















Nilesh Ratilal Jani
Amish Bharat Jani
Dhiman Pankaj Jani
Hitarth Harish Jani

Dates

Sankalchand Kuberchand Jani
Date of Birth: 13/02/1887 - at Lunawada, Panchmahal District, Gujarat, India
Heavenly Abode: 08/02/1942
Marriage Date: Not Known 
Chanchal Sankalchand Jani
Date of Birth: Not Known
Heavenly Abode: Oct/Nov - 1936
Marriage Date: Not Known
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Ratilal Sankalchand Jani
[S/o Sankalchand Jani]
Date of Birth: 10/02/1916
Heavenly Abode: 14/01/2008
Marriage Date: March - 1936
Premila Ratilal Jani
[W/o Ratilal Jani]
Date of Birth: June - 1923
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 12 March - 1936 // Fagan vad chauth, samvat 1992
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Bhagwati Ashwin Rawal
[D/o Ratilal Jani, W/o Ashwin Rawal]
Date of Birth: 29/12/1940
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 13/02/1960
Ashwin Shivprasad Rawal
Date of Birth: 09/10/1935
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 13/02/1960
Ketna Minesh Pandya
Date of Birth: 16/02/1962
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 81
Minesh Sureshchandra Pandya
Date of Birth: 06/02/
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 81
Sohil Minesh Pandya
Date of Birth: 10/04/1983
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Niyati Minesh Pandya
Date of Birth: 16/01/1988
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Deepan Ashwin Rawal
Date of Birth: 18/03/1969
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 13/12/1996
Anjali Deepan Rawal
Date of Birth: 15/07/1971
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 13/12/1996
Vedagna Deepan Rawal
Date of Birth: 03/09/1999
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Atharva Deepan Rawal
Date of Birth: 04/09/2004
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date:
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Bharat Ratilal Jani
Date of Birth: 03/11/1943
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 16/05/1970
Jayshree Bharat Jani
Date of Birth: 07/11/1948
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 16/05/1970
Amish Bharat Jani
Date of Birth: 11/05/1972
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 08/12/2000
Vaishali Amish Jani
Date of Birth: 23/09/1978
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 08/12/2000
Dharv Amish Jani
Date of Birth: 20/08/2002
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Purvi Prashant Jani
Date of Birth: 25/10/1973
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 04/12/1997
Prashant KanakKumar Jani
Date of Birth: 12/08/1972
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 04/12/1997
Aayushi Prashant Jani
Date of Birth: 21/03/1999
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Hitanshi Prashant Jani
Date of Birth: 15/08/2004
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date:
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Vasantika Shailesh Bhatt
[D/o Ratilal Jani, W/o Shailesh Bhatt]
Date of Birth: 10/02/1946
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 15/05/1970
Shailesh Shivprasad Bhatt
Date of Birth: 19/02/1945
Heavenly Abode: 19/07/1996
MarriageDate: 15/05/1970
Sonal Appurva Patel
[D/o Vasantika Bhatt]
Date of Birth: 07/08/1971
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 12/12/1994
Appurva Patel
Date of Birth: 15/02/1970
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 12/12/1994
Lipsa Patel
Date of Birth: 06/05/1997
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Hiral Shailesh Bhatt
Date of Birth: 04/09/1972
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 19/01/1999
Neha Hiral Bhatt
Date of Birth: 21/07/1972
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 19/01/1999
Aarav Hiral Bhatt
Date of Birth: 11/01/2001
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Palni Hiral Bhatt
Date of Birth: 03/08/2003
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Sunil Shailesh Bhatt
Date of Birth: 26/10/1974
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 01/11/2000
Aashima Sunil Bhatt
Date of Birth: 16/10/1977
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 01/11/2000
Aarnav Sunil Bhatt
Date of Birth: 24/02/2002
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
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Pankaj Ratilal Jani
Date of Birth: 26/03/1948
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 11/12/1975
Unnati Pankaj Jani
Date of Birth: 17/10/1951
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 11/12/1975
Himani Jetal Raval
Date of Birth: 19/06/1977
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 11/12/1999
Jetal Dilip Raval
Date of Birth: 29/11/1973
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 11/12/1999
Neel Jetal Raval
Date of Birth: 23/09/2001
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Rudra Jetal Raval
Date of Birth: 26/12/2006
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Dhiman Pankaj Jani
Date of Birth: 01/03/1981
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 07/05/ 2009
Bansari Dhiman Jani
Date of Birth: 18/03/1986
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 07/05/ 2009
Reyansh Dhiman Jani
Date of Birth: 01/06/2012
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
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Harish Ratilal Jani
Date of Birth: 23/01/1951
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 22/11/1979
Kanan Harish Jani
Date of Birth: 10/4/1954
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 22/11/1979
Hitarth Harish Jani
Date of Birth: 18/08/1982
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 29/11/2011
Vidhi Harish Jani
Date of Birth: 21/01/1986
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Avani Hirath Jani
Date of Birth: 14/11/1986
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 29/11/2011 
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Rajeshwari Bharat Pandya
Date of Birth: 01/04/1953
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 20/01/1974
Bharat Vinodchandra Pandya
Date of Birth: 05/12/1945
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 20/01/1974
Jigar Bharat Pandya
Date of Birth: 17/12/1974
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 09/12/
Khushboo Jigar Pandya
Date of Birth: 28/05/
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 09/12/
Harshil Jigar Pandya
Date of Birth:
Heavenly Abode:
Marriage Date:
Appurva Bharat Pandya
Date of Birth: 06/11/
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 24/04/2002
Dipti Appurva Pandya
Date of Birth: 26/06
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 24/04/2002
Krutarth Appurva Pandya
Date of Birth: 10/09/
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
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Nilesh Ratilal Jani
 Date of Birth: 31/03/1956
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 29/01/1984
Kirtida Nilesh Jani
Date of Birth: 25/06/1960
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: 29/01/1984
Disha Nilesh Jani
Date of Birth: 30/12/1984
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date: -
Kosha Nilesh Jani
Date of Birth: 11/04/1989
Heavenly Abode: -
Marriage Date:
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Karma Yogi Ratilal - Acknowledgements

Acknowledgements

I wish to express my gratitude to all the people associated in the writing of this book, especially Ba – Smt. Premilagauri Jani, Uncles – Shri Bharat Jani, Shri Pankaj Jani, Shri Harish Jani and Shri Nilesh Jani for being very generous in sharing their experience and knowledge.

I am thankful to my Aunts – Smt. Jayshree Bharat Jani, Smt. Unnati Pankaj Jani, Smt. Kanan Harish Jani and Kirtida Nilesh Jani for reviewing text. I thank, my friends and cousins – Amish, Purvi, Himani, Dhiman, Vidhi, Disha and Kosha for their tough critical analysis and comments, accompanied with their gentle support.

And finally, my deepest gratitude to the Generation Next – Dharv, Aayushi, Hitanshi, Neel and Rudra for their unfailing emotional support during formation of this book. I seek the same attitude and enthusiasm which my grandfather cherished all his life, and want them to practice in their own respective lives. I want this work to reflect.

Hitarth Jani